July 13, 2009

The Proposal






Saturday July 11 was probably the best day of my life up to this point! I could keep this post short or I could give all the details...I'm going to give all the details! The day started like any other Saturday. Ben's niece Becca got baptized so we went to that at 4:00.  My family went to the Oquirrh Mountain Temple open house then we all met for dinner at Little America. Ben and I got there first and were lucky enough to see President Monson and his wife walking in. Ben asked him how he was and he said I'm doing just right. I thought that was cute. After dinner I asked Jess to take some pictures of Ben and me around Little America. Neither of us love having our pictures taken so we don't have nearly enough pictures together.  After dinner we went to my house and chatted with my family. Earlier in the week Ben told me he ran into a friend who wanted to meet me but was leaving on Sunday so we had to go visit Saturday night. He said he wanted to go later in the evening so we didn't have to stay too long. So about 8:30 we left my house. As we were driving Ben said he needed to call and tell them we were on our way. (He really called Jess). They said they weren't home yet but we could go up on the hill on their property and hang out and wait. Their son just happened to have some stuff set up from the night before with his girlfriend. So we drove up the dirt road to the top of Bountiful. When we got there Ben told me to close my eyes so he could see what was set up. When I opened my eyes there was a big bean bag with rose petals all over it. I said wow that's pretty great this stayed so nice over night! I was TOTALLY oblivious to what was going on. Ben covered his tracks really well. So we sat on the bean bag and watched the sunset. Ben said he had a great idea. He went and turned on some music and brought his laptop over. Ben proceeded to show me a slide show with excerpts from his journal. It started when we were in 7th grade and went up until that moment, skipping a few years of course. Sitting on the top of the mountain, the sun setting, soft music playing, reading such nice things, snuggling with the man I love, I didn't think the night could get any better. (I was still oblivious in case you are wondering) The next thing I know the man of my dreams is on his knee in the dirt with my dream ring asking me to marry him. I said of course I'll marry you! After he put the ring on my finger he told me all the things he loves about me and so much more. On the way back to my house he took a detour. Last week he took my dad to lunch to pop the question to him. My dad, and everyone else, loves Ben so I knew his answer would be yes. While they were talking my dad asked Ben to do him a favor. He asked him to take me to the cemetery after he proposed so I could share it with my mom. So instead of going straight home to share the news with the rest of the family, I got to spend some time with Ben at the cemetery where I always think of my mom. I had so many emotions. It was an amazing night. It was a perfect night. It was a perfect proposal. I can't wait to marry my perfect boy. I can hardly wait until October 10, 2009 when I say yes and become Kristy Hodgkinson...


The view




Me showing off the ring, Ben looking like he's the man.


How cute is he!


Not the best night pictures but you get the idea.

A very large picture of my ring. 
The ones I took on my hand just didn't do it justice.

21 comments:

Liz Royall said...

Congratulations Ben and Kristy! Sounds like you had a great night!

Andria said...

Kristy!!! I am so happy for you! Congratulations!

Haylee said...

Oh Kristy!!! I am so stinkin excited!! I can't wait until Oct. 10th either!!! I am so excited to have you as a sister in law!!! Ben is one lucky boy!!! We love you!!

Tyler & Shannon Higgins said...

BOTT!
I'm so excited for you!!!!
Can't wait to hear more about it and looking forward to meeting Ben!! gorgeous ring!

Trish said...

What a special time for you! It sounds like everything went great! I was tearing up at the part about sharing the moment with your mom! What a great man you have! Can't wait for the big day and all the fun in between now and then! Love you!

Vicki said...

O.k. Ben you rock! i am so glad that Kristy has finally found you, and that you are lucky enough that she is still here. Kristy, i love you girl and i know that your life will be happy! I hope that you both always remember these moments, they are the ones that carry you thru all of times that are to come! You are blessed to have one another. Most adorable couple! Love you both! Very romantic night, i am so glad that your whole! family was there to enjoy it! See you soon. Oh yes, the ring, FABULOUS!

Marianne said...

Oh Kristy. So great! What a perfect day. I hope I can make it out there in October!! We need to talk...

dianeb said...

I kinda have an idea of the feeling your Mom has for you right now, and my eyes are full of tears, but my heart is overflowing with love!! Best of everything you guys!!

bottspot said...

OH Kristy! That was soooo perfect! You are so lucky to have such a romantic guy. Maybe he can give Josh some pointers ;) Congrats you guys! Welcome to the fam Ben! Love you guys! Congrats!

bottspot said...

BYW . . . I know your mom appreciated your visit. I have tears in my eyes. I miss her so much!

Just be...... said...

Well "the boy" did good. What a perfect day. I love that you were oblivious to a bean bag chair all set up with rose pedals. Fabulous ring, darling couple. CONGRATS!!!

And we will start planning. Let's get a hold of each other this week.

Glitzy Glass said...

That was so fun to read about. I am so happy for you. The ring is a killer!!! Have a great time getting ready for the wedding, enjoy a few moments!

Sue said...

I'm so glad you gave us the long version! How romantic! Congrats once again.:)

Michelle said...

I am so dang happy for you guys!! What a cute way to propose!! I can't wait to meet Ben! We should get together soon!

Batty Bunch said...

Kristy! Congratulations! I am so excited and happy for you! I love the way he did it and I love your ring! Good luck with all the planning, I know it will be gorgeous!

Aly said...

Kristy! That is awesome! What a special night. I lost my dad when I was little, so the mom, part hit close to home. I'm so happy for you. Marriage is the best!

Jessie Nielson said...

I need to see this ring in person so that I can oooh and ahhhh! What a wonderful story! You will make a beautiful bride! :) So happy for you and Ben!

Kayla said...

Congrats my love! I'm so excited for you.

Kam said...

Oh my goodness. THat was such a cute story. I totally got teary eyed. Congrats. You will make a beautiful bride. I love ya girl!

dave, catie, and baby b. said...

you made me cry!
congratulations!

catie p.

Jessica said...

dude. time to update the blog. this is old news...